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How to Choose the Right International School: A Step-by-Step Guide for Expat Families

Written by Rupert Gedde | Dec 2, 2024 5:30:00 PM

Moving abroad with your family? Choosing the right international school is one of the most important decisions you'll make—and it can feel like a lot.

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Moving abroad with your family? Choosing the right international school is one of the most important decisions you'll make—and it can feel like a lot.

But don’t panic. This step-by-step guide walks you through everything you need to consider, from curricula and facilities to emotional support, community fit, and future pathways.

Take a deep breath. You got this. ✨

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What Is an International School?

International schools offer education in English (or another major global language) and follow globally recognized curricula like:

  • IB (International Baccalaureate)

  • British Curriculum (IGCSEs, A-Levels)

  • American Curriculum (AP, SAT)

  • Other national systems (French, German, Australian, etc.)

They’re designed for expat and internationally minded families, emphasizing diversity, academic rigor, and global citizenship.

📚 Learn more in our blog: The Benefits of an International School Education

Espoo International School in Helsinki (Finland)

Your Step-by-Step Guide to Choosing the Right International School

1. Identify Your Family's Priorities

Ask yourself:

  • Do we have a preferred university system or country in mind?

  • Is bilingualism or native language instruction important?

  • What’s our child’s learning style? Structured or student-led?

  • How important is emotional support or social integration?

  • Are extracurriculars like sports or arts a big priority?

  • What values or cultural aspects do we care about most?

2. Research Curriculum & Teaching Style

Consider:

  • Does the school follow IB, British, American, or another curriculum?

  • Is the teaching style traditional, inquiry-based, or student-centered?

  • How does the curriculum align with your child’s past and future schooling?

📚 Explore your options: Types of Curricula in International Schools

3. Think Practically: Location & Facilities

  • What commute time is manageable for your family?

  • Does the school provide safe transport options?

  • Are the classrooms, labs, libraries, and sports facilities well equipped?

  • Is technology well integrated?

💡 Tip: The “best” school isn’t just the one with the flashiest campus—it’s the one that fits your daily life.

4. Evaluate Cost & Financial Support

Look at:

  • Tuition ranges (and what’s included)

  • Extra fees: uniforms, trips, meals, tech, etc.

  • Payment options or installment plans

  • Scholarships or employer support

📚 Get the full picture: The Cost of International Schools: What You Need to Know

5. Check Accreditation & Reputation

  • Is the school accredited (e.g., by CIS, NEASC, WASC)?

  • What are its university outcomes?

  • Do families recommend it? (Check forums or ask Doris 😉)

  • Are faculty qualified and experienced?

6. Ask About Emotional & Social Support

  • Is there access to counselors and pastoral care?

  • Do they offer a buddy system or new student orientation?

  • Is there a school culture of inclusion and respect?

  • Are wellbeing or mindfulness programs integrated?

7. Explore Extracurricular & Leadership Opportunities

Look for:

  • Strong arts, music, or sports programs

  • Clubs, student councils, or service learning

  • Competitive teams, shows, or performances

  • Real-world leadership opportunities

💬 These programs help kids make friends, explore passions, and grow socially.

8. Check Support for Special Educational Needs (SEN)

If relevant:

  • Are there qualified SEN staff or therapists?

  • Is there a process for creating Individualized Education Plans (IEPs)?

  • Are facilities accessible and inclusive?

  • How involved are parents in the process?

9. Understand the Admissions Process

  • When are application deadlines?

  • What documents are required?

  • Are assessments or interviews involved?

  • Is there a waiting list or limited intake?

🎯 Start early and ask Doris for support navigating timelines and requirements.

10. Get a Sense of the Community

  • Does the school have a PTA or regular events?

  • How is communication managed (apps, newsletters, meetings)?

  • Are families from diverse backgrounds?

  • Do they offer cultural events, family socials, or networking groups?

11. Think Long-Term: Future Transitions & Opportunities

Ask about:

  • University destinations and college counseling

  • Standardized test prep (SAT, ACT, IELTS)

  • Alumni success and networks

  • Credit transfer if relocating again

  • Links to employers, internships, or vocational paths

12. Visit the School (If Possible)

  • Observe classroom dynamics

  • Meet teachers, students, and staff

  • Tour the campus (even virtually)

  • Assess the general atmosphere—is it warm and welcoming?

📚 Use this as a companion: Top Questions to Ask When Visiting an International School

13. Involve Your Child & Trust Your Gut

This is their school too. Pay attention to:

  • Their reactions after a tour

  • Their comfort with the school’s culture and rhythm

  • Your instincts—how the school feels matters just as much as facts

Pupils at Grace International School, Chiang Mai (Thailand)

Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This

Choosing the right international school is a personal journey—not a checklist race. There’s no one perfect school, only the best fit for your family’s goals, values, and circumstances.

Lean on research, involve your child, and yes—trust your gut.

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